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My first [http://guia.clarin.com/benchlimit27/usuario nudist] experience came by accident once I was 32 years old. Prior to that, I had been raised in an extremely small family where my mom prohibit my father to possess Playboy Magazines in the house (I found out years later he did anyhow.) Nevertheless, as a teenager I was always curious about it and on those infrequent occasions when I found myself dwelling for a couple of hours alone while my parents and younger brother and sisters were off on some family excursion, I tried out being without clothes for an hour here or an hour there. It felt comfortable, but I never dreamed I 'd ever attempt it in front of others. However, skinny dipping was on my mental &quot;Bucket List&quot; to try sometime in my life when - or if - I ever could summon the guts.<br />My wife, like my mom, was incredibly self conscious about her body. What nudity there was in our house was restricted to streaking from the restroom to the bedroom after a shower.<br />On this special Sunday, we walked north from Paradise Cove, searching for the tide pool area a certain guidebook said was there. After a while we rounded a special corner to find a long shore perhaps a half-mile long, that was covered with nude bodies. We should go - now!&quot; At that instant, my daughter squealed with joy and took off running down the shore and into the group. She had totally forgotten about any tide pools.<br />&quot;I always wanted to try this,&quot; I confessed to my wife. &quot;Dont you dare!&quot; she quietly but firmly answered.<br />Nonetheless, I happened to mention our accidental discovery to a coworker several days afterwards. He nonchalantly acknowledged he along with his wife went there all the time. I was more than surprised to learn this. Nudists dwelt among us! Who knew?<br />A year passed, and the next summer my wife and daughter left to visit her sister in Washington State. I stayed behind for another week to complete an important project at work. A couple of days afterwards, the exact same co-worker came into my office and shut the door.<br />&quot;What?&quot;<br />&quot;Recall last year you told me about the nude beach? Nows your time to go without your wife finding out.&quot;<br />&quot;No, I couldnt do that. [https://www.pcb.its.dot.gov/PageRedirect.aspx?redirectedurl=http://www.firsttrustautomotive.net/__media__/js/netsoltrademark.php?d=nudebeach.top/contents/88296360/4.html beach party] 'd feel like I was cheating or something.&quot;<br />Come on down Saturday with Gail and me.&quot;<br />Well, I was nervous enough about the idea but going with people from work was entirely out of the question. &quot;Alright, but I wish to go by myself the first time.&quot; I believe I said it as much to end the dialog and get him out of the office as to be serious about what I was saying. But as the days passed, I began thinking that maybe this might be my only opportunity to attempt it, and I started making plans.<br />Simply [https://my.uttc.edu/ICS/Academics/CEU/CEU__000/2008_40-CEU__000-B/Collaboration.jnz?portlet=Forums&amp;screen=PostView&amp;screenType=change&amp;id=3e8e71ae-d241-41a2-ab41-917364103bb9 beach gallery] got there early and there was barely anyone else there. I walked about midway down, spread my blanket, and sat there, alone, not needing to be the only one on the seashore who wasnt wearing my swim suit. It took a few hours, but by the time the sun was overhead many others began to arrive. Some were families, some were couples, and some were apparent groups of friends who'd done this many times before. They all dropped their suits like they had done it a thousand times before (they likely had) with not a hint of self-consciousness or shyness. They unpacked umbrellas and sand seats and Frisbees and footballs, same as on any seashore. Only these individuals had no tan lines.<br />I reach my first moment of truth once I knew it was time to either join in or leave. So I pulled off my suit and instantly rolled onto my stomach, thinking, &quot;Oh wow, I really did it! I truly did it!&quot;<br />About a half hour after came the second moment of truth. That's when I realized I was burning in areas that had not been exposed to sunlight before, and I was really going to need to turn over. But I had a better idea: I 'd head for the cool ocean water and conceal my privates there.<br />So I summoned all the courage I had, and stood up. I was specific everyones head would turn and I 'd be exposed for everyone to judge. After a few moments I realized they werent looking at me. Im having a nervous breakdown here as well as the least they could do is look and acknowledge it!&quot; Nobody cared about me at all. After, I found that many others also go through these twin &quot;instant of panic&quot; their first time, only to look back and laugh at their conceit after.<br />By now there were several hundred men and women in the water, splashing, diving, body surfing, doing what folks everywhere do in the water. Only without clothes. I joined in the fun and experienced my first astonishing second when the ocean wraps itself around ones body free of garments.<br />I didnt expect to adore the feeling so much. I thought this whole thing would be a few moments checking off an item on my Bucket List, and then I'd go home and live the rest of my entire life.<br />Nope, someday would need to return. This was an astonishing, surprising experience, and I stayed all afternoon. I felt no sexual tension, in fact I saw no sexuality in the slightest. I found out later that the seashore had it unofficial mayor and a team to volunteers who made sure nothing improper would occur there. So I found it really an extremely relaxing day. I even played a small beach volleyball. Modesty and shame would have been inappropriate in this setting.<br />On Monday morning, first-thing, my coworker came into my office and asked, simply, &quot;Well?&quot; I told him I really enjoyed the encounter and I thanked him for talking me into going. No, I wasnt going to go back some other day with him and Gail, but maybe someday. Then something occurred I didnt expect.<br />A couple of hours after, another coworker came into my office and shut the door. &quot;My wife and I saw you Saturday,&quot; he said softly with a big grin on his face.<br />Oh, no! I couldnt sink far enough into my chair! Then he explained he along with his family go to that beach frequently and they were going to say hello but felt I might upset me (darn right it'd have!).<br />&quot;Is this some big conspiracy?&quot; I inquired. &quot;Do a lot of the people I know go down to such a beach?&quot;<br />&quot;More than youll ever know,&quot; he replied. &quot;We simply never talk about it.&quot;<br />There's a postscript to this story. We had a wonderful vacation except for one thing I had forgotten about.<br />One night in getting undressed for bed, my wife asked, &quot;What is that?&quot;<br /><br /><br />&quot;What?&quot; I answered.<br />&quot;It looks like your back is peeling. In fact your behind is peeling!&quot; There was [https://intensedebate.com/people/saillimit40 naturism] while her thoughts put together the puzzle. &quot;Dont tell me you went to that beach, did you?&quot;<br />I sheepishly nodded. &quot;I knew youd never go there and I wanted to try it.&quot;<br />&quot;Oh my God! I dont believe it..etc. etc.&quot; [http://wiki.soippo.edu.ua/index.php?title=Adventures-in-the-Holy-Land-And-Our-Quest-To-Locate-A-Bare-Beach-In-Israel-e nudism] reminded me of it frequently during the next few years, particularly when we had guests over for dinner so she could make an example of her &quot;loony&quot; husband.<br />Sadly for her, some of our guests confessed they went to that shore (or others like it) also!<br />Social nudity, as it turns out, is extremely popular, but nobody ever wants to talk about it.<br />My wife (now my ex) believes the world is nuts.)<br />
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My first nudist experience came by accident once I was 32 years old. Prior to that, I had been raised in an extremely modest family where my mom forbid my dad to get Playboy Magazines in the house (I found out years later he did anyhow.) It felt comfortable, but I never dreamed I would ever attempt it in front of others. Still, skinny dipping was on my mental &quot;Bucket List&quot; to try sometime in my life when - or if - I ever could summon the courage.<br />My wife, like my mom, was incredibly self-conscious about her body. What nudity there was in our home was limited to streaking from the restroom to the bedroom after a shower. My daughter was fascinated by the sea creatures trapped in the water at low tide, so we often visited distinct beaches along the 50 miles of county shoreline where these pools may be explored.<br />On this special Sunday, we walked north from Paradise Cove, searching for the tide pool area a specific guidebook said was there. After a while we rounded a special corner to discover an extended shore perhaps a half-mile long, that was covered with naked bodies. We must go - now!&quot; At that instant, my daughter squealed with joy and took off running down the beach and into the crowd. She'd absolutely forgotten about any tide pools.<br />My wife rolled her eyes, and we walked with purpose toward where she had shed her bathing suit and was now running even quicker down the seashore. &quot;I always liked to try this,&quot; I confessed to my wife. &quot;Dont you dare!&quot; she gently but firmly replied. After we regained our daughter and got her dressed, we turned south and returned to our car and left.<br />As a family we never went back. Yet, I happened to mention our accidental discovery to a coworker a couple of days after. He nonchalantly admitted he and his wife went there all the time. I was more than surprised to learn this. Nudists dwelt among us! Who knew?<br />A year passed, and the next summer my lovely wife and daughter left to visit her sister in Washington State. I stayed behind for another week to complete an important project at work. A few days later, the same co-worker came into my office and shut the door.<br />&quot;What?&quot;<br />&quot;Remember last year you told me about the nude beach? Nows your time to go without your wife finding out.&quot;<br />&quot;No, I couldnt do that. I'd feel like I was cheating or something.&quot;<br />Come on down Saturday with Gail and me.&quot;<br />Well, I was nervous enough about the idea but going with folks from work was totally out of the question. &quot;Ok, but I need to go by myself the very first time.&quot; But as the days passed, I began thinking that perhaps this might be my only opportunity to try it, and I started making strategies.<br />That Saturday morning I drove to Paradise Cove and retraced our steps from the prior year, up the shore, until I got to the exact same large, sandy beach just south of Pt. Dume. Only I got there early and there was hardly anyone else there. I walked about midway down, spread my blanket, and sat there, alone, not desiring to be the only one on the beach who wasnt wearing my swim suit. It took a few hours, but by the time the sun was overhead many others started to arrive. Some were families, some were couples, and some were evident groups of friends who had done this many times before. They all dropped their suits like they had done it a thousand times before (they probably had) with not a hint of self consciousness or shyness. They unpacked umbrellas and sand seats and Frisbees and footballs, same as on any beach. Just these folks had no tan lines.<br />I reach my first moment of truth when I understood it was time to either join in or leave. So I pulled off my suit and immediately rolled onto my belly, thinking, &quot;Oh wow, I really did it! I truly did it!&quot;<br />About a half hour later arrived the second moment of truth. Then I understood I was burning in areas that had not been exposed to the sun before, and I was going to need to turn over. But I had a better idea: I 'd head for the cool ocean water and conceal my privates there.<br />So I summoned all the courage I 'd, and stood up. I was certain everyones head would turn and I 'd be exposed for everyone to judge. After a few moments I realized they werent looking at me. &quot;Why werent they looking at me? Im having a nervous breakdown here and the least they could do is look and recognize it!&quot; But nobody did. After, I found that many others also go through these twin &quot;moment of terror&quot; their first time, just to look back and laugh at their conceit later.<br />By now there were several hundred men and women in the water, splashing, diving, body surfing, doing what folks everywhere do in the water. Only without clothing. I joined in the fun and experienced my first surprising instant when the ocean wraps itself around ones body free of garments.<br />I didnt expect to adore the feeling so much. I believed this whole thing would be a few moments checking off an item on my Bucket List, and then I'd go home and live the rest of my entire life.<br />Nope, someday would need to return. This was an amazing, sudden experience, and I remained all afternoon. I found out later that the seashore had it unofficial mayor as well as a team to volunteers who made sure nothing inappropriate would happen there. So I discovered it really an extremely relaxing day. I even played a little beach volleyball. Modesty and shame would have been inappropriate in this setting.<br />On Monday morning, first-thing, my co-worker came into my office and asked, simply, &quot;Well?&quot; I told him I really loved the encounter and I thanked him for talking me into going. No, I wasnt going to go back some other day with him and Gail, but perhaps someday. Then something occurred I didnt anticipate.<br />A few hours later, another co worker came into my office and shut the door. &quot;My partner and I saw you Saturday,&quot; he said softly with a huge grin on his face.<br />Oh, no! I couldnt sink far enough into my chair! Then he explained he along with his family go to that beach often and they were going to say hello but felt I might upset me (damn right it would have!).<br />&quot;Is this some huge conspiracy?&quot; I asked. &quot;Do lots of the folks I know go down to such a shore?&quot;<br />&quot;More than youll ever know,&quot; he responded. &quot;We simply never talk about it.&quot;<br />There's a postscript to this story. We had a lovely holiday except for one thing I'd forgotten about.<br />One night in getting undressed for bed, my wife inquired, &quot;What is that?&quot;<br />&quot;What?&quot; I replied.<br />&quot;It seems like your back is skinning. In fact your behind is skinning!&quot; There was a nervous pause while her mind put together the puzzle. &quot;Dont tell me you went to that beach, did you?&quot;<br />I sheepishly nodded. &quot;I knew youd never go there and I liked to attempt it.&quot;<br />&quot;Oh my God! I dont believe it..etc. etc.&quot; She reminded me of it often during the next few years, especially when we had guests over for dinner so she could make an example of her &quot;insane&quot; husband.<br />Sadly for her, a few of our guests confessed they went to that beach (or others like it) additionally!<br />Social nudity, as it turns out, is hugely popular, but nobody ever needs to talk about it.<br />My wife (now my ex) thinks the world is nuts.)<br /><br /><br />

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My first nudist experience came by accident once I was 32 years old. Prior to that, I had been raised in an extremely modest family where my mom forbid my dad to get Playboy Magazines in the house (I found out years later he did anyhow.) It felt comfortable, but I never dreamed I would ever attempt it in front of others. Still, skinny dipping was on my mental "Bucket List" to try sometime in my life when - or if - I ever could summon the courage.
My wife, like my mom, was incredibly self-conscious about her body. What nudity there was in our home was limited to streaking from the restroom to the bedroom after a shower. My daughter was fascinated by the sea creatures trapped in the water at low tide, so we often visited distinct beaches along the 50 miles of county shoreline where these pools may be explored.
On this special Sunday, we walked north from Paradise Cove, searching for the tide pool area a specific guidebook said was there. After a while we rounded a special corner to discover an extended shore perhaps a half-mile long, that was covered with naked bodies. We must go - now!" At that instant, my daughter squealed with joy and took off running down the beach and into the crowd. She'd absolutely forgotten about any tide pools.
My wife rolled her eyes, and we walked with purpose toward where she had shed her bathing suit and was now running even quicker down the seashore. "I always liked to try this," I confessed to my wife. "Dont you dare!" she gently but firmly replied. After we regained our daughter and got her dressed, we turned south and returned to our car and left.
As a family we never went back. Yet, I happened to mention our accidental discovery to a coworker a couple of days after. He nonchalantly admitted he and his wife went there all the time. I was more than surprised to learn this. Nudists dwelt among us! Who knew?
A year passed, and the next summer my lovely wife and daughter left to visit her sister in Washington State. I stayed behind for another week to complete an important project at work. A few days later, the same co-worker came into my office and shut the door.
"What?"
"Remember last year you told me about the nude beach? Nows your time to go without your wife finding out."
"No, I couldnt do that. I'd feel like I was cheating or something."
Come on down Saturday with Gail and me."
Well, I was nervous enough about the idea but going with folks from work was totally out of the question. "Ok, but I need to go by myself the very first time." But as the days passed, I began thinking that perhaps this might be my only opportunity to try it, and I started making strategies.
That Saturday morning I drove to Paradise Cove and retraced our steps from the prior year, up the shore, until I got to the exact same large, sandy beach just south of Pt. Dume. Only I got there early and there was hardly anyone else there. I walked about midway down, spread my blanket, and sat there, alone, not desiring to be the only one on the beach who wasnt wearing my swim suit. It took a few hours, but by the time the sun was overhead many others started to arrive. Some were families, some were couples, and some were evident groups of friends who had done this many times before. They all dropped their suits like they had done it a thousand times before (they probably had) with not a hint of self consciousness or shyness. They unpacked umbrellas and sand seats and Frisbees and footballs, same as on any beach. Just these folks had no tan lines.
I reach my first moment of truth when I understood it was time to either join in or leave. So I pulled off my suit and immediately rolled onto my belly, thinking, "Oh wow, I really did it! I truly did it!"
About a half hour later arrived the second moment of truth. Then I understood I was burning in areas that had not been exposed to the sun before, and I was going to need to turn over. But I had a better idea: I 'd head for the cool ocean water and conceal my privates there.
So I summoned all the courage I 'd, and stood up. I was certain everyones head would turn and I 'd be exposed for everyone to judge. After a few moments I realized they werent looking at me. "Why werent they looking at me? Im having a nervous breakdown here and the least they could do is look and recognize it!" But nobody did. After, I found that many others also go through these twin "moment of terror" their first time, just to look back and laugh at their conceit later.
By now there were several hundred men and women in the water, splashing, diving, body surfing, doing what folks everywhere do in the water. Only without clothing. I joined in the fun and experienced my first surprising instant when the ocean wraps itself around ones body free of garments.
I didnt expect to adore the feeling so much. I believed this whole thing would be a few moments checking off an item on my Bucket List, and then I'd go home and live the rest of my entire life.
Nope, someday would need to return. This was an amazing, sudden experience, and I remained all afternoon. I found out later that the seashore had it unofficial mayor as well as a team to volunteers who made sure nothing inappropriate would happen there. So I discovered it really an extremely relaxing day. I even played a little beach volleyball. Modesty and shame would have been inappropriate in this setting.
On Monday morning, first-thing, my co-worker came into my office and asked, simply, "Well?" I told him I really loved the encounter and I thanked him for talking me into going. No, I wasnt going to go back some other day with him and Gail, but perhaps someday. Then something occurred I didnt anticipate.
A few hours later, another co worker came into my office and shut the door. "My partner and I saw you Saturday," he said softly with a huge grin on his face.
Oh, no! I couldnt sink far enough into my chair! Then he explained he along with his family go to that beach often and they were going to say hello but felt I might upset me (damn right it would have!).
"Is this some huge conspiracy?" I asked. "Do lots of the folks I know go down to such a shore?"
"More than youll ever know," he responded. "We simply never talk about it."
There's a postscript to this story. We had a lovely holiday except for one thing I'd forgotten about.
One night in getting undressed for bed, my wife inquired, "What is that?"
"What?" I replied.
"It seems like your back is skinning. In fact your behind is skinning!" There was a nervous pause while her mind put together the puzzle. "Dont tell me you went to that beach, did you?"
I sheepishly nodded. "I knew youd never go there and I liked to attempt it."
"Oh my God! I dont believe it..etc. etc." She reminded me of it often during the next few years, especially when we had guests over for dinner so she could make an example of her "insane" husband.
Sadly for her, a few of our guests confessed they went to that beach (or others like it) additionally!
Social nudity, as it turns out, is hugely popular, but nobody ever needs to talk about it.
My wife (now my ex) thinks the world is nuts.)